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Old 05-11-2018, 05:14 PM   #1
tryinghard1
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Post Thread watched False accusations of Domestic Violence is turning my life upside down.

What is the name of your state? California

My wife and I have a 2 year old child together and we have been having issues for too long. We talked about divorce multiple times and her statement was basically because once divorced she is not planning on staying in the USA and wanted to go back home (over seas) and knows the laws of this country wont just let her take our child with her she said she will give me full custody and leave.

3 weeks ago she gets into a car accident where both cards get totaled and she gets bruised around her arm, we take her to ER and they put an IV for almost 2 hours to give her fluids and valum.

Once week later we get into argument and then she leaves the house, take our child for a stroll and 6 hours later I hear from here that she is in the EH because of chest pain, the nurse noticed the IV bruise on her arm and other bruises and insists on it being from abuse. And she calls the cops.

When the cops come they corner and pressure her into saying something along the lines of my husband (maybe) grabbed my hand.
She then starts playing the role of a victim and agree on them taking her and my child to some shelter to stay there. I go to jail, get bailed out and the next day get served with EPO. Now that the EPO expired I hear from her friends that she has found a divorce lawyer and filing for a restraining order.

My court date for the criminal case is in 1.5 months and the preliminary charge is A felony 273.5 it is not yet officially charged by the DA office.

I have a criminal lawyer but not a family one yet since there is no court hearing for the RO yet or divorce filed.

I have not seen my daughter in 3 weeks and I have no idea where my wifes whereabouts. I think whoever she is with are filling on her what to do and clouding her mind. She might also found an opportunity to get me in trouble thinking this might give her full custody of out child and be able to leave the country and go back home.

I have not touched her that day or any other day since we got married. The police was never called to our residence and I have never been in any trouble my whole life. The only encounter with police I had was when I got my only speedy ticket 7 years ago. I have relatives and friends that could test to me character.

I am devastated as this might change my life completely, in my line of work any conviction that could show up on my background check when changing jobs is a deal breaker, which means either staying in my job (in a highly volatile market) or not get convicted.

I keep reading and hearting that this system sides with women 100% and always agains the man.

I am really looking for any hope telling me that there is justice in this country and that if I did not touch her I would be proven innocent.

Any advice, help, support, encouragement is highly appreciated as this last 3 weeks has taken a toll on my work, health and life.
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