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Old 12-17-2017, 01:10 AM   #1
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My babysitter had sex with me every time she was there while my parents were gone. I was 10 and she was 16.

I am now 29. I never objected and in fact I guess I liked it.

But given all the sexual harassment issues today, should i report her to the police now?

I am married now and I never told my wife about this.


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Old 12-17-2017, 02:10 AM   #2
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You don't mention your state, but in most jurisdictions the statute of limitations has expired. If not, do what you think is best. Ask yourself what are you hoping to gain.
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Old 12-17-2017, 10:19 AM   #3
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I wish to inform you that though the specifics vary from state to state, a DNA exception allows for the tolling of a statute of limitations in cases where a perpetrator is later identified through DNA evidence. As of this date, 27 states have some form of a DNA exception that extends the time limit for prosecuting the offense. Additionally, 8 states do not have any statute of limitations for prosecuting felony sexual assault. Of these states, Delaware has no statute of limitations for any sexual offense; Wyoming and South Carolina have no statute of limitations for any criminal prosecution. States without a statute of limitations would not need a DNA exception.

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Old 12-17-2017, 12:25 PM   #4
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My babysitter had sex with me every time she was there while my parents were gone. I was 10 and she was 16.
I am now 29. I never objected and in fact I guess I liked it.
But given all the sexual harassment issues today, should i report her to the police now?
I am married now and I never told my wife about this.
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Maybe there is legal recourse against the babysitter after all this time and maybe not.

At any rate, what would you gain by turning everybody's lives upside down especially considering:

"I never objected and in fact I guess I liked it."

That, of course, doesn't condone what she did but if you haven't been damaged from the experiences, and it's almost two decades later, I suggest you just keep it to yourself and move on, knowing that you are the envy of every boy who ever had a wet dream about the sitter.
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Old 12-17-2017, 03:21 PM   #5
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I wish to inform you that though the specifics vary from state to state, a DNA exception allows for the tolling of a statute of limitations in cases where a perpetrator is later identified through DNA evidence.
I wish to inform you to wake up. The perpetrator is identified and DNA is not necessary.
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Old 12-18-2017, 11:56 AM   #6
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In this regard you could not raise a valid claim against the babysitter at this point of time. It is good to dug all those bad memories.
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How do you "dug" a memory?
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I guess just make a big hole in the dirt and "dug" it.
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Or, you can enjoy it and say "I really dug that memory."
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My babysitter had sex with me every time she was there while my parents were gone. I was 10 and she was 16.

I am now 29. I never objected and in fact I guess I liked it.

But given all the sexual harassment issues today, should i report her to the police now?

I am married now and I never told my wife about this.


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Well it is a crime but you have to decide if it makes sense to pursue it after all these years. And then the statute of limitations might have run anyway if you do. If it was an issue it would have been better to pursue it long ago, as you know I guess.
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