Re: How can I get my husband out of the house if he refuses to leave?
Same situation. Waited 12yrs to go back to school and I'm almost done. Three kids and no income other than his. Verbal turned to physical recently and I didn't think he was going to stop. Some people have no idea how hard it is to leave sometimes and no one deserves it. I can't work and do school full time and keep the work hours he would want (day). Before things got worse I made a choice to better myself so that I could support myself and children without him one day. If you call the cops and make him leave, who's going to pay the bills and put food in the kids mouths until court or available resources. Here is what you do…
Document EVERYTHING! times, dates, what was said, pictures..and hide it where he won't find it
Start saving every bit of money you can even if it's pennies
Have a plan if he hits you (bag with clothes for yourself and children, ex medicines extra keys)
You are going to have to keep these things where he won't find it and this is very important
Call a lawyer and find out what the law is in your state
The hardest part is enduring the crap, but keep quiet because in time you will have all of the resources you need to leave him. If you are afraid for your or your children's lives, call a domestic abuse hotline and make the sacrifice to go to a shelter. They will help you with work and finding a home until you get on your feet.
Same situation. Waited 12yrs to go back to school and I'm almost done. Three kids and no income other than his. Verbal turned to physical recently and I didn't think he was going to stop. Some people have no idea how hard it is to leave sometimes and no one deserves it. I can't work and do school full time and keep the work hours he would want (day). Before things got worse I made a choice to better myself so that I could support myself and children without him one day. If you call the cops and make him leave, who's going to pay the bills and put food in the kids mouths until court or available resources. Here is what you do…
Document EVERYTHING! times, dates, what was said, pictures..and hide it where he won't find it
Start saving every bit of money you can even if it's pennies
Have a plan if he hits you (bag with clothes for yourself and children, ex medicines extra keys)
You are going to have to keep these things where he won't find it and this is very important
Call a lawyer and find out what the law is in your state
The hardest part is enduring the crap, but keep quiet because in time you will have all of the resources you need to leave him. If you are afraid for your or your children's lives, call a domestic abuse hotline and make the sacrifice to go to a shelter. They will help you with work and finding a home until you get on your feet.
Comment